Episode 300

Finding Your Identity After Retirement: A Care Partner's View - with Marilyn Raichle

Published on: 5th July, 2026

What happens when retirement doesn’t look the way you expected? And what if purpose appears not through careful plans, but through simply being present?

In this episode of Beyond Retirement, I’m joined by Marilyn Raichle, who has spent her life building communities through creativity, curiosity, and connection. From founding the Seattle International Children’s Festival and a national comedy festival to leading Maude’s Awards for Innovation in Alzheimer’s Care, her work has always centered on bringing people together.

Her life took an unexpected turn when she became a care partner for her parents as they lived with dementia. What followed wasn’t the story of loss that many people expect. Instead, it revealed moments of creativity, humor, and connection that reshaped her understanding of aging, relationships, and what it truly means to live well.

Marilyn is the author of Don’t Walk Away: A Care Partner’s Journey, a hopeful and deeply human reflection on love, creativity, and connection through every stage of life.

What You'll Learn:

Through Marilyn’s story, you’ll discover how slowing down, listening deeply, and embracing simple moments of creativity can transform the way we relate to others and ourselves. This conversation offers a refreshing perspective on aging, reminding us that meaning often emerges in unexpected places.

Key Topics Covered:

Life After a Major Pivot

  • When retirement doesn’t unfold as planned
  • Redefining purpose beyond career identity

Care Partner vs. Caregiver

  • Shared humanity and partnership
  • Letting go of control and expectations

Creativity and Joy

  • Art as a bridge beyond fear and stigma
  • Play, music, and laughter as connectors

Changing the Dementia Narrative

  • Living with dementia, not suffering from it
  • Enduring personhood and human needs

Listening and Presence

  • Slowing down and asking meaningful questions
  • Why curiosity matters more than answers

Connect with Marilyn:

Book site: https://dontwalkaway.net/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marilyn.raichle

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marilynraichle/

Instagram: instagram.com/raichlem/

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About the Podcast

Beyond Retirement
What really happens after retirement?

If you’re approaching retirement—or already there—and wondering what now?, you’re not alone. The world is full of financial advice for retirement, but there’s far less about how to actually live a fulfilling life once the 9-to-5 ends.

Beyond Retirement is the podcast that explores what comes after the career chapter. Whether your retirement was planned or unexpected, joyful or jarring, you’ll find real stories, honest conversations, and practical inspiration here.

Join host Jacquie Doucette as she shares her own journey and speaks with people who’ve reimagined life after work—some fully retired, some shifting gears, and all discovering new meaning in this next stage. From finding purpose to building community, embracing play, and navigating change, we’ll explore how to create a life that truly fits.

Because retirement isn’t the end—it’s a new beginning.

Let’s figure out what comes next, together.

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